HOW DO YOU WANT TO BE REMEMBERED?

Each week, at our Tuesday’s at Easterseals Family Caregiver Support Group, our caregiver’s share their stories, their ideas, their frustrations, and their joys.

Recently, I asked them, “From a caregiver perspective, how do you want to be remembered?” Below, is what they shared.

I want to be remembered that…

·         I was stronger than I thought I was, or could ever be.

·         I did my best, and I was blessed to have support to help me on the journey.

·         I did all that I could. I was there for my loved one.

·         I was not selfish. I was not selfless. I was self-FULL.

·         I was an advocate for my loved one… and I was an advocate for myself.

·         I could stand alone, and be ok. I am still standing. I am resilient.

·         I was always there; no regrets.

·         I found my weaknesses; they made me stronger.

·         Some things are beyond my control. I learned how to let go of what I couldn’t control, and embraced what I could control/do.

·         I cherished myself for what I was able to do. I was proud to have been the best caregiver that I could have been.

·         Caregiving was a surprising gift; I will treasure the time I had with my loved one and appreciate all that I was capable of doing.

·         I learned how to provide care and compassion for my loved one, and for me.

 Happiness is not what makes us grateful. It is gratefulness that makes us happy.

~ Br. David Steindl-Rast

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